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Shaunda and David's Engagement Story

How did I propose to Shaunda? With lots of help. We had just moved from our summer apartments in Atlanta to North Carolina for Shaunda's last year of law school, which made it hard to figure out when and where I could pull off any sort of stunt. A trip to visit my parents in Washington State provided the perfect opportunity. I decided to go with a buried treasure theme suggested by my cousin Stacey and her husband, and I knew of a perfect place - some desolate sand dunes overlooking the Columbia River an hour north of my parents' house. So I had my friend Hans build an old-looking box out of weathered wood, and he kindly hauled it out and left it half buried on the side of a huge sand dune. Inside the box he put some dried desert flowers and a piece of paper I had prepared with "Will you marry me?" printed on it. Hans gave me a good verbal description of where he left the box, and then it was up to me to get Shaunda there.

Box
The box with the view

First I took Shaunda to see the nearby ruins of a cabin built in 1890. I hoped that my emphasis on the local history would lead her to see the box as an artifact and not suspect my sneaky plan. Next I told Shaunda I wanted to take her to some sand dunes I had explored during my college years. We hiked along old tire tracks through the tumbleweeds and sagebrush. After about 45 minutes, I noticed a broken line of old fence posts that matched Hans's description. At the end of the line was a sand dune. "This is the one!" I thought. To Shaunda, I nonchalantly suggested, "Let's follow the animal tracks along the fence row. They will take us right to that sand dune."

As we passed the last fence post, I saw the box! I tried to contain my excitement and not draw her attention to it yet. I wanted Shaunda to find the box herself so that she would think she found it, keeping her suspicions low. I set down my backpack about 25 feet from the box so that the box was between us and the top of the dune. She still didn't see the box. At my suggestion, we headed toward the top of the dune. I was worried she would walk right past it, but she didn't! She saw it and exclaimed, "Look! A box." "Should we open it?" I asked, trying to seem calm. "Sure!" she replied. So I knelt down, brushed the sand away, and gently lifted the lid. Shaunda was leaning over my shoulder, eager to see what was inside. The piece of paper immediately caught her attention. "David, do you see that piece of paper?" "Yeah," I said, picking it up and handing it to her. "You read it and see what it says." Still on one knee, I turned to watch her open the paper.

Engagement Animation
Popping the question (reenactment)

Her eyes got big as she read "Will you marry me?" and realized that we were not discovering history but creating our own. "Of course!" she said. I pulled a bottle of Martinelli's and a bar of Toblerone chocolate out of my backpack to celebrate as the Columbia River reflected the rays of the setting sun.

Sunset
Jumping
David jumping for joy off the sand dune

Ribbon